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Or that, perhaps they should take up a different hobby - such as writing up bios for characters, or writing a story.
9:18 PM
I don't think that making a tulpa should be treated as a chore, but I don't think it should be treated as flippantly as a leisure activity.
9:19 PM
It certainly is comparable to raising a child in the sense of enjoyment, I would agree.
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:19 PM
The child metaphor has multiple forms of applicability
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It isn't always applicable, by any means - but there are absolutely areas in which it is.
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It does, however I wonder if new hosts consider tulpas forever children because of it.
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:20 PM
You know Winter, it's people who decide what's the point in it.
9:20 PM
Yes. People can certainly derive their own meaning from an activity.
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:21 PM
It also depends how people view actual children
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However, if they are trying to make a tulpa - referring to the tulpas that are not simply imaginary friends or characters the 'host' manouvers around - simply using them for leisure is quite a flippant and blatantly inconsiderate thing to do.
9:22 PM
If they want the equivalent of an imaginary friend, that is fine - they can do that.
9:22 PM
Terming it the same as making a tulpa that is equivalent to a host and trying to make multiple 'because it's fun', or dropping them if it isn't constantly fun, is, quite frankly, stupid. (edited)
9:23 PM
They are certainly free to do so, and I am similarly free to call them out as not really thinking about what they are doing, or thinking from an extremely egocentric perspective. (edited)
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Yes, I often consider why we do not encourage lower levels of thoughtform creation similar to imaginary friends as an alternative to tulpa creation. It seems many problems with tulpa lifestyles result from a host wanting a fish in a tank rather than a person.
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I agree with that.
9:24 PM
This is why I try to differentiate between people who are interested in having a tulpa, and interested in being able to say "I have a tulpa".
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That is a good way to put it, Winter.
9:26 PM
It has become in some circles and with some trends that the community prefers to "flex" their host status rather than be a host.
9:26 PM
We still use that word, yes? .-.
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The term "host"?
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:27 PM
I think "flex" is the one in question
9:28 PM
...I suppose it doesn't really matter - in either case, the meaning is still in common use.
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:28 PM
People who are like "look at me I have a tulpa, so I'm special!"
9:28 PM
Although flexing is more general than just that (edited)
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Indeed, though certainly not in such an obvious fashion.
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is that a common thing? I haven't seen that around here at all
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:29 PM
I haven't seen much of it around here
9:29 PM
Not that I've exactly been here long
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bduddy #Diana# 6/23/2018 9:29 PM
Maybe on 4chan or something. I don't think I've ever seen it anywhere else.
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That said, it does tend to be rather clear when somebody claims to have a tulpa for many years, or instantaneously, but it seems to never speak for some reason. Then, when it does, the speech patterns are identical to the host, or so grossly caricatured that, were it a picture of a person, proportions would be dramatically out of scale.
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:30 PM
Of course... there's also an issue that I haven't seen mentioned here
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Cartoonishly large eyes, no arms, no legs, a singular nostril instead of a nose, etc.
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:30 PM
Going to create a tulpa and getting a... less than friendly being
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oh, the tulpa horror stories?
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:31 PM
I find myself wondering how often the creation process turns for the worse
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I have heard one or two people mention that their friends claim they have a malicious tulpa, unless it happens to be a person that treats their tulpa extremely poorly, or a person with an underlying mental issue which can clearly point to it.
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I wonder about those who do not have their tulpas speak often as well.
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So - third-hand information, abuse, or some kind of physical mental disorder.
9:32 PM
Nothing particularly reliable as a way of demonstrating that tulpas can go particularly wrong with decent treatment or without significant mental issues (which also tend to lead to poor treatment, mind).
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We had some issues with the system not getting along, though it is not something you would stumble upon. We were not aware what multiplicity or tulpas were when such things were going on, which did lead to the difficulties in dealing with each other most commonly reported with natural tulpas.
9:34 PM
It seems most of the cases where this maliciousness is reported is not so cartoonishly good and evil, but rather two parties trying to comprehend their relationship.
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I don't think that "not getting along" is the type of maliciousness people are referring to in this case, @Kaliya. I could be wrong, and won't pretend that I know what Ruethus is referring to, but typically when people refer to 'malicious' tulpas they are referring to people who claim their tulpas are actively trying to force possession and cause harm to the body.
9:34 PM
Or otherwise constantly try to frighten or threaten them.
9:35 PM
In other words, create a disruptive and distressing atmosphere - the point where having the tulpa could arguably be called a mental disorder.
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:35 PM
Sometimes tulpas are just toxic
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:35 PM
Well... the "worst" cases of what I'm thinking of is creating mentally unstable tulpas, or servitors whose only ability is to draw energy from the body and nothing more
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:35 PM
But I guess it doesn't count
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I use the phrase "not getting along" loosely.
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Hah. Alright.
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:35 PM
So you've either got a constant noise machine in your head or a permanent energy drain, and good luck trying to get rid of them with that going on in your head
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I would prefer not to clog the chat with such horror stories from someone who was too young to understand how silly it all was in hindsight.
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Relationship troubles are certainly one thing that can happen, but persistent toxicity does tend to be a result of poor treatment of the tulpa, to my recollection.
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:36 PM
Not in our case
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Indeed, I do not know of a case where either the tulpa was not treated poorly or intentionally made to be "evil."
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it is exceedingly rare for a tulpa to just naturally be that way, most of them are at least reasonably kind individuals
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:37 PM
tbh:
  • tulpas are fully sentient beings
  • meaning they can get fissy over small or non-existent fluffed up stuff too
  • therefore, tulpas can be malicious for seemingly no reason
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Yes, usually when I have interacted with problem tulpas, they are not malicious. They have enough sentience and ability of their own to feel slighted by their host in some way, and have the authority to act on it. Tulpas who do not have the power to act out against their hosts are never considered malicious, and the host is not considered the malicious party for causing the tulpa's feelings.
9:39 PM
I should not say never, though I have observed a pattern of host neglect more often left alone than I have of tulpa acting out being termed problematic, harmful, or even malicious.
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:40 PM
also, if I were somebody's tulpa, I'd probably be mad about the whole system inequality situation
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That was certainly an issue in our system for a long while.
9:40 PM
I do think most tulpas are used to not having to do anything thus not having to be needed for anything, decreasing their "use" and "value."
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:41 PM
(ex. "why don't you introduce me to your friends?", "why don't you let me have my own IRL friends too?", "why do you hide me when around other people that don't know about tulpas?")
9:41 PM
tbh, yeah, you're probably right
9:42 PM
but still
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That said, a lot of tulpas would prefer not to ever have to do anything boring or difficult, so I can see the appeal of behaving like a child having to be cared for perpetually.
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:42 PM
Some tulpas are just having all the fun and their host has to work for it.
9:42 PM
you could end up with a pretty system-selfish tulpa
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Indeed, Luna. It is a double edged sword.
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pretty sure most tulpas understand why they're hidden from people who don't know about tulpas
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:42 PM
and after that, it's game over
9:42 PM
IDK, I'm kinda smoked up, ignore errors
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I wonder if this is why there is a common trope of tulpas being childlike, cute, and the like.
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:44 PM
all tulpas are cute
9:44 PM
tbh, all thoughtforms are cute
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:44 PM
Cute?
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:44 PM
mhm
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It is possible a tulpa can develop to be a complete person, but opt to not behave as such for the benefit of being unconditionally cared for.
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:44 PM
Alna isn't really "cute"
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tulpas tend to have cute forms a lot of the time, it makes sense
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:44 PM
More "dangerous"
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:45 PM
Cute and edgy are similar
9:45 PM
well, you have "thoughtforms" and then you have "thotforms"
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:45 PM
Dangerous as in rolling kinda like a femme fatale
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:46 PM
do you have a reference image of her?
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:46 PM
Sorta kinda
9:46 PM
Lemme grab Google image
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:46 PM
I bet she at least looks cute
9:46 PM
k
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:46 PM
I mean... other people might call her look "cute"
9:46 PM
Because she took on a freaking kemonomimi look
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I was not designed to be "cute."
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:46 PM
but you are
9:46 PM
deal with it
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Though some call me- yes, yes...
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:48 PM
Lemme go pull up the Touhou fanime, there's a shot in it that's very similar to how she rolls
9:50 PM
Kaguya doing her creepy smirk (edited)
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Deleted User 6/23/2018 9:50 PM
I expected something more edgy
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Ruethus the Silver Sorceror 6/23/2018 9:50 PM
The stillframe doesn't quite sell it
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